Generosity — the quality, nature inherent in every man, we need only to know how to arouse your man.
Why some women men are surrounded by care, give them gifts, endlessly spend money on them, while others get only modest bouquet of flowers on March 8? If you belong to the second category, there’s good news: generosity — the quality, nature inherent in every man, we need only to know how to arouse your man. Find out what 6 techniques will make your lover to be attentive and generous.
REJOICE in the Gifts. Why we love to spoil you with gifts small children? They know how sincerely rejoice! Wanting to see again on the face of little enthusiasm from the next surprise, we take the time to spend money and time and purchase another (even hundred and twenty fifth and not really necessary) toy, book, whatever! Children’s spontaneity and ability to enjoy the little things should learn: happier than you will react to every, even a very small gift to a loved one, the more he will want to please you again.
Of course, we are not talking about claims insincerity always felt, and will serve you a disservice. But to learn sometimes “turn” a girl who accepts gifts with admiration and joy.
ASK FOR HELP. Generosity goes hand in hand with the desire to care and protect. If your man does not quite fit the image of the knight-defender, it is worth considering and you give him that opportunity? Image separate and independent of the “iron lady” can become so familiar that we gradually grow to be women’s fragility and weakness — and if so, the person sometimes does not imply that we expect from him expressions of caring.
Start to ask a loved one for help — even if at first you will be difficult to do, but the inner voice persistently whispering: “I can handle myself!” One of the basic needs of men to feel needed, and if you give him this feeling, he will respond to you with generosity and sincere concern.
THANKS. Woman with enviable enthusiasm chastises chosen for greed, but don’t know how to thank you, only contributes to the fact that her husband is day by day becoming more and more greedy and avaricious. To favorite wanted to spend money on you, appreciate the efforts and will praise his generosity — tell us how it is important for you and how you admire his masculine care and attention to you. Sincere gratitude and admiration can work wonders — even the most economical man will want to endlessly surround you with care and surprise gifts just for no reason.
TALK ABOUT YOUR DESIRES. Men, unfortunately (or fortunately?), can’t read thoughts, and hints, usually understand with difficulty. So if your man alien of generosity, and you are upset, don’t expect it “he guess about the cause of your dissatisfaction — do not guess!
Tell beloved about their desires — but not in the form of accusations (“You always pity to me of money!”), comparisons (“But Ola’s husband flowers for no reason!”) or uncompromising requirements (“I Want you, I bought a coat”). The best way is not to criticize and not to manipulate, but to talk about their feelings. A loving man will want to please you at least a bouquet of flowers, if you sincerely admit: “I would be very pleased if you often gave me gifts mean so much to me your attention!”
ALLOW YOURSELF TO DREAM. Sometimes we are like a block in your generosity, sometimes even not realizing in this report. Is it possible that asked her husband “What do you want, honey?” you answered: “I Have everything I need, don’t waste your money”? Or, maybe you read the chosen one for being too expensive gift and even offered to return it to the store? Keep in mind that this reaction is a heavy — duty “silencer” male generosity: what is the reason to take care of a woman who “have everything” and who does not consider himself worthy of expensive gifts? If you are looking at women, surrounded by male attention, wondering how they achieve this relationship, here is your answer: they’re just not afraid to want and know how desired to accept with gratitude, but with dignity, without fear of “owed” and not trying to play the role of the accountant, counting each spent man a penny.
SHOW GENEROSITY. Generosity is a quality that can be fast enough to develop, is only to create an appropriate atmosphere. If you want the man showed generosity towards you, learn to be generous yourself — give attention, time and effort yourself and your family, do not skimp on the good words and emotions, do surprises for no reason, give small gifts, in a word, cultivate generosity in your relationship: being inspired by your mood, the man gradually he will begin to become more generous and attentive.