You become to some extent those around you, so make the right choice!
Some of the people with whom we spend time, unfortunately, negatively affect our mood and therefore our lives, reports Rus.Media.
They reduce your confidence, make you feel worthless or you just constantly disappoint. Some of them can be aggressive, angry, prone to humiliate others or just pessimists.
Many of them do not even realize what a negative effect. They are so used to behaving this way, do not even think about the consequences.
Or, on the contrary, they can very well understand how frustrating is to communicate with them, but they still. In any case, from the people, which will be discussed below, you should stay away!
1. Inveterate bullies.
Even if you are not the object of their mockery, the fact that they generally behave in a similar way, shows that it is a very unpleasant people.
2. People who see all the negativity.
They always see the glass as half empty. They will treat your ideas with contempt, and indeed will try to humiliate. If you let them, their energy will just destroy.
They are able to deliver significant discomfort. Endless chatter is hard to call one of the virtues. Naturally, such people require your participation in discussions of other people, but not give them the satisfaction.
4. Aggressive people.
Perhaps you have friends who demonstrate rigidity in relation to others, and you treat their behavior is tolerated or even encouraged it. But, most likely, one day aggression will turn in your favor. These are not good people, and you may eventually become like them. So, avoid such people and, of course, do not encourage their behavior.
5. Envious people.
We all sometimes feel a little jealous, but for some this feeling is pathological. Remember that jealous people can be quite strange. Much nicer to enjoy the success of others. Try to develop this quality in yourself and connect with people who feel for others does not envy, and joy.
6. People who are friends with you only in a good time for you.
These people can hardly be called good friends. It’s a pretty insignificant person, and they attract only people who are resting at the moment on our laurels. They are not sincere and basically good.
7. People who try to control you.
Stay away from those types that will try to control you or try to lead in all projects in which you participate. Be yourself and make your choices in life.
You will never be able to trust them with something important. All people sometimes cheat anyway, but stay away from those who do it often and who is lying in the important things. Find out who you can trust.
9. Energy vampires.
These people feed on energy of other people. They are narcissists in their behavior, and think only about yourself. They will suck you all the energy, if you allow them to do it. To find in their environment of these energy suckers and stay away from them.
10. Constant victim.
I used to be one of them, so I can tell about these people! They believe that the whole world is against them. They are always in anticipation of any trouble that may befall them at any moment. This is quite a negative way of thinking, and these people just destroy you if you have to let them. Stay away from negativity!
11. Lazy, unmotivated people.
I also was the kind that made me suffer. Laziness – terrible thing, avoid it at all costs. And the stronger the habit, the harder it is to get rid of it.
The General rule of life – socialize with good people. According to Jim Rohn, you are the sum of the five people you spend the most time. To some extent you become those around you, so make the right choice!